Renowned Nigerian author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie has called on young women to be intentional and discerning when selecting a life partner, cautioning them against settling due to desperation or societal pressure.
During a recent event with students, the award-winning writer, 47, emphasized the long-lasting impact of this crucial decision, urging women to prioritize kindness and support in their choice of whom to marry.
“It’s essential to consider who you choose. It’s essential. Young women, choose wisely,” Adichie stated. “Sometimes, you might realize that the person you’re with is not a good person, but you feel desperate to get married. Don’t settle. Be very careful about whom you choose.”
She continued, “The person you select as your life partner can significantly affect your life. If you choose someone who is kind and supportive, it will make all the difference. I can tell you that I chose well; there are still good men out there.”
Adichie, famous worldwide for her novels Half of a Yellow Sun and Americanah, has been married to Nigerian doctor Ivara Esege since 2009. The couple has three children: a daughter and twin boys.
Her comments followed her recent decision to reclaim her Igbo name, Chimamanda, in an effort to reconnect with her roots after feeling disconnected from her identity.