Actress Nkechi Blessing has spoken about a recent dating encounter that made her question how some men act during early dating conversations.
Naijaonpoint reports that the incident happened after she stopped chatting with a man who lives in the UK.
In a lengthy video on her Instagram page, she revealed that he reached out to ask why she went silent, not knowing she had just had a minor car accident that damaged two of her tyres.
When she told him about the situation, he only asked if she was fine and ended the chat with a short message.
Nkechi said she felt his reply showed no real effort.
She said that a man who wants to build something serious should not ignore moments when he can show care.
According to her, she was not asking for help, but she expected him to show concern by at least offering support.
She later fixed the tyres herself.
Hours after, he sent another message asking if she had resolved the issue, and she simply told him she already bought two new tyres.
She compared this with how a male friend in Abuja treated her.
She said she told him she had work in the city, and he immediately offered to cover her hotel arrangements.
When she tried to handle it on her own, he insisted on taking care of it. She described the gesture as an example of how a man who truly cares behaves.
Nkechi explained that she values her independence but also believes a man should show effort when it counts.
She said it is not about depending on someone but about knowing the person is willing to act when needed.
The actress ended by saying she has no interest in dating a man who cannot show he is able to look after her.
She added that she is currently single and talking to more than one person.
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