Nollywood actress, Uche Ogbodo, has described the trend of excusing male infidelity while expecting women to remain faithful and endure hurtful behaviour as rubbish.
Naijaonpoint reports that the movie star made this known in an interview with Punch.
Uche stated that spouses are expected to be faithful to each other, stressing that cheating ruins families and hurts women.
The actress noted that not all men are involved in infidelity, praising those who uphold loyalty and respect and build thriving homes.
She said, “That is rubbish. I don’t believe in it. That’s how women are victimised. I believe in a 50-50 marriage. If you want me to be faithful, stay faithful to me. Why cheat on me and treat me miserably while I remain loyal? Men who say they can’t control themselves need to respect and discipline themselves. Cheating ruins you, your family, and hurts a woman who has dedicated her life to you. Some men are well-disciplined and understand the ethics of marriage and good relationships.”
Uche Ogbodo also opened up about self-worth, honesty, and what she describes as the hypocrisy that shapes society’s expectations of women, especially in marriage.
According to her, many women hide their real experiences out of fear, even when sharing them could inspire others.
She added, “I’ve always been an open person because this life is for the living, and I love myself too much to let anything deter my faith or pursuits. I don’t think you’re living right when you live in constant fear and hide so much that people could learn from it.
“ I often advise women, know your worth and don’t settle for relationships that drain you emotionally or psychologically.
“You have to know who you are as a woman, what you’re worth, what you want. Love yourself enough before another man can love you. If your needs aren’t being met, what are you doing in that relationship? I’m not an advocate of suffering and smiling. If it’s not working, it’s not working. You don’t have to die in it. Abuse isn’t only physical; it’s also mental and psychological. When a woman is made to feel less than herself, that is abuse. A woman should love herself enough to walk away when her wants and needs aren’t met.”
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