“When your home crumbles, you can’t point fingers, you bear the weight of responsibility” – Rita Edochie tells men, as she shares tips on how they can lead their household

Veteran Nollywood actress Rita Edochie has once again sent a message to men with crashed marriages.

In a lengthy post on her Instagram page, she told them that when their homes crumble, they can’t point fingers and should bear the weight of responsibility. She made them know that their actions, decisions, and leadership shape the foundation of their family.

Rita Edochie further gave them a list of things they must do to lead their household, which includes leading with integrity, listening with empathy, loving unconditionally, and communicating effectively. She reminded them that women are only help mates and support systems and not architects of their downfall.

“MEN, TAKE HEED! WHEN YOUR HOME CRUMBLES, YOU CAN’T POINT FINGERS. YOU BEAR THE WEIGHT OF RESPONSIBILITY. YOUR ACTIONS, DECISIONS, AND LEADERSHIP SHAPE THE FOUNDATION OF YOUR FAMILY.

AS THE PILLARS OF YOUR HOUSEHOLD, YOU MUST :

LEAD WITH INTEGRITY
LISTEN WITH EMPATHY
LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY
COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY

REMEMBER, WOMEN ARE HELPMADES AND SUPPORT SYSTEMS, NOT ARCHITECTS OF YOUR DOWNFALL. THEY STAND BY YOUR SIDE TO UPLIFT AND STRENGTHEN, NOT TO CARRY THE WEIGHT OF YOUR MISTAKES.

DON’T SHIFT THE BLAME; OWN YOUR MISTAKES, LEARN FROM THEM, AND BUILD A STRONGER, LOVING HOME.

A BROKEN HOME OFTEN STARTS WITH BROKEN LEADERSHIP. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY, MEND THE CRACKS, AND FORGE A UNITED FAMILY.

RISE, MEN YOUR FAMILY’S FUTURE DEPENDS ON IT.

GOOD EVENING AND HAPPY SUNDAY ONCE MORE GREAT LOVERS OF RITA EDOCHIE”.

A week back, Rita had lashed out at married men who keep their exes as their best friends. She questioned why such men didn’t end up with their exes if they loved them or valued their friendship.

Slamming them for going back to their vomit, she questioned if they had ever thought about the mental and emotional stress it imposes on their wives.