Nollywood actress Rita Edochie has given a word of advice to men.
In a lengthy post on her Instagram page, she said that a good woman will give a man a crown, while a bad one will make you a clown. Edochie asserted that a good woman is a blessing beyond riches as she lifts her man, protects his image and adds honour to his crown.
However, a bad woman drains his strength, nicks his vision and turns his glory into shame. She admonished the opposite gënder to choose wisely because their partner will determine whether they will rise as a king or fall as a jester.
She further admonished them to marry character, not just beauty. Rita noted how infidelity wouldn’t let most men behold the faces of their legal wives.
“A good woman will give you a crown.
A bad one will make you a clown.
A good woman is a blessing beyond riches.
She lifts her man, protects his image, and adds honour to his crown.
If you doubt this, ask Comr Tony Edochie, my husband.
But a bad woman, she drains his strength, mocks his vision, and turns his glory into shame.
Choose wisely, because the partner you keep determines whether you rise as a king or fall as a jester.
Not all that glitters is gold. Some crowns shine, others hurt like thongs.
Marry character, not just beauty, though the beauty.
No kwa in the person with the character since mana.
Infidelity won’t let most men behold the faces of their legal wives.
Seek virtue, not vanity.
A good woman builds while a bad one destroys.
Karma is a bastard o.
This time, it struck so fast.
Haaaa Okotorigba”.
In a past post, Edochie had pointed out the importance of a woman in a home. She stated that 99 per cent of the success of every home is due to right-thinking women, as they are the stamina, providing the foundation upon which families are built. She made it known that women’s influence is profound, shaping the values, morals, and character of their loved ones.
This isn’t the first time Rita has advised men.
A while back, she had cautioned married men against maltreating their wives because of a roaming side chick. She made them know that they would value the women they mistreated when they were old. She admonished the opposite gënder not to trade their wives’ love, loyalty and commitment for a fleeting affair with a side chick. The veteran noted that one’s wife is their partner, confidante, and the one who will stand by them through thick and thin, triumphs and failures.
The sister-in-law of Pete Edochie had sent a message to men with crashed marriages. She told them that when their homes crumble, they can’t point fingers and should bear the weight of responsibility. She made them know that their actions, decisions, and leadership shape the foundation of their family, as she gave them a list of things they must do to lead their household.
In another post, Rita had lashed out at married men who keep their exes as their best friends. She questioned why such men didn’t end up with their exes if they loved them or valued their friendship. Slamming them for going back to their vomit, she questioned if they had ever thought about the mental and emotional stress it imposes on their wives.