Former First Lady of Kenya, Pastor Dorcas Rigathi, has once again sparked debate with her powerful remarks on money, respect, and the role of women in society. Speaking passionately, she emphasized that character and decision-making—not wealth—define a person’s true nature.
“Money is not everything, and it doesn’t change your attitude. It is your decisions that make you who you are and determine whether you disrespect others. Money doesn’t push you to that point,” she stated. Her message highlighted that financial success should never be mistaken for moral superiority or emotional maturity. According to her, respect and humility are matters of personal choice, not financial status.
Pastor Dorcas went further to share her perspective on gender roles and the value of submission in relationships. She described women as “objects of power,” arguing that submission to a man should not be seen as a form of weakness, but rather as an act of strength and wisdom. “A woman submitting to a man isn’t weakness; it is strength,” she affirmed.
Her statement reflects her long-standing belief in biblical principles of family and marriage, where mutual respect and understanding are the cornerstones of unity. She insisted that submission, when practiced out of love and not fear, brings harmony and balance to relationships.
However, her remarks have stirred mixed reactions among Kenyans. Some praised her for upholding traditional Christian values that emphasize respect and order within the family. Others, especially from younger and feminist circles, criticized the idea, arguing that it undermines the ongoing struggle for gender equality and empowerment.
Despite the divided opinions, Pastor Dorcas remains firm in her faith-based teachings. To her, submission is not about inferiority, but about inner strength—the ability to love, respect, and cooperate without losing one’s dignity.
In a society increasingly influenced by materialism and changing gender dynamics, her message serves as a reminder that true empowerment begins with character, not currency. As she puts it, “Money may buy luxury, but it can never purchase humility, respect, or love.”