“It seems your upbringing lacks love, hence, your misplaced anger and frustration” – Iyabo Ojo writes heartfelt note to Very Dark Man, calls out his mother

Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo has penned a heartfelt note to social media activist, Very Dark Man.

In a lengthy post on her Instagram page, she stated that she has gained a deeper understanding of his behavior, which is sad. She noted how his upbringing lacked love, care, and stability, hence his toxic narcīssistic behavior. She further noted how his parents failed to provide him with a nurturing environment, leading to unresolved anger and pain.

She stated that instead of directing his anger towards those responsible, he has chosen to lash out at successful womën and men. She made him know that his anger and frustration are misplaced and it’s time he acknowledges the root cause.

Addressing his mum, she stated that her lack of initiative and dependence on her ex-husband is concerning. She questioned if she wasn’t working before her ex ran away. Iyabo further questioned if she had a flawed character or cheated on her husband and more.

The controversial actress made it known that she was only asking these questions because her son needs healing and she doesn’t have N100milliok to give him.

“Vincent, I’ve gained a deeper understanding of your behavior, and I must say, it’s quite sad. It seems like your upbringing lacked love, care, and stability. Hence, your toxic narcīssistic behavior, Your parents failed to provide you with a nurturing environment, leading to unresolved anger and pain.

Instead of directing your anger toward those responsible, you’ve chosen to lash out at successful womën and men. Your anger and frustration are misplaced, and it’s time to acknowledge the root cause.

Listening to your story, you had to fend for yourself at a very young age, which resorted to stealing potatoes and chickens to survive. You almost got lynched when you tried to steal a bicycle, so you said, w, ell. “That was traumatizing as a child, but why would your mother allow that to happen?

Since you’ve mentioned our names once again, I need to ask your mother why. Mama Vincent, your lack of initiative and dependence on ur ex-husband is concerning.

Were you not working at all b4 he ran away? Was your character flawed? Did you cheat, Did he want DNA? Why didn’t you make a continuous attempt to find out whose farm ur son stole potatoes or chickens from to feed, or were you also enjoying the benefits? Why would you have kids you couldn’t raise

Now, I wouldn’t have asked you because everyone has their stories, but your son needs to find healing!

Vincent, your mother, who failed to provide you with a stable and loving environment, left you for the streets; you knew your mother was the president, general among failed mothers. Still, you projected it on us; why? O wrong now 😕

Anyway, I get that your life experiences have shaped you into the BEAST you are today – manipulative, rude, Connie, deceitful, and toxic narcīssistic. Constantly tarnishing reputations to gain relevance. Your parents are to blame for it o, not Paulo and Mama Festus and Priscilla.

Your obsession with Iyabo Ojo is telling me that my name lives rent-free in your head o, I don’t have 100m to remove it from your head, so please, If it helps you breathe well at night, continue.

VDM, free your heart from hate by first forgiving your parents so that you can find peace”.

For the past year, Iyabo and VDM have been at loggerheads, which stemmed from Iyabo’s interference in the late singer Mohbad’s case. VDM had called the actress a failure, and Iyabo had replied, raining several unprintable words at him, calling his mother a failure and shameless. VDM hit back, accusing the movie star of engaging in a threesome with her daughter.

The activist reignited their beef in June as he shaded Iyabo, claiming that she didn’t get an invite to Davido’s main wedding, inferring that she was only invited to the after-party, just like every other influencer. Iyabo had hit back with proof of her invitation, and the two dragged themselves through the mud on social media.