Oluwadolarz’s ex, Ife, has explained her decision to bring their private issues online. She stated that going public about their relationship problems was a way to prevent further manipulation and attempts to win her back.
Ife emphasized that addressing their issues publicly was necessary to ensure she wouldn’t be persuaded to reconcile.
“You know how they say, ‘never say never’? Well, for me, this is a definite ‘never.’ We were together for seven years, and when I asked him where our relationship was heading, it seemed to pressure him. I believe a person who reacts that way might need therapy.
A lot of people questioned why I aired our family issues online, asking if things had been resolved. But I didn’t want it to be resolved; I wanted everything to be over, and I felt that was the only way to achieve that. I had been searching for a way out for a while, facing manipulation and pleading. As you all saw, Oluwadolarz’s mother even came to beg me, saying she was kneeling down on both knees, insisting that if I didn’t say I had forgiven her son, she wouldn’t stand up.
When someone who can give birth to you kneels down like that, what can you do? In Yoruba culture, that kind of kneeling is a curse and an abomination.
I realized that the only way I could truly be free was to go online and expose everything. There’s no way anyone would come back to beg me after that.”