Charles Idibia the younger brother of legendary singer, 2baba has written an open letter to him.
Kemi Filani reported that the music icon, in a recent episode on Nedu’s podcast, said that a man isn’t built to be sexually active with one woman. He stated that a man can love a woman, but it’s impossible for him to sexually be with only one woman.
Making a u-turn, 2baba, in a video on his Instagram page, admitted that he fucked up. He tendered an apology to his wife Natasha, whom he described as the love of his life, fans and his kids. 2baba said he is deeply sorry, and that’s not who he is.
Weighing in on it, in a lengthy post, he claimed that his brother had been captured from inside the frying pan and thrown into an industrial furnace as he accused his girlfriend, Natasha, of controlling and manipulating him.
He stated that a girlfriend who forces him to eat his words from a podcast just because he didn’t mention her name isn’t a girlfriend but a psychotic fan and a cancerous leech. He accused Natasha of steadily destroying him and his legacy, all in the name of love.
He urged his brother to wake up for the sake of his kids, noting that he is a good chess player who knows how to step away from the chessboard and evaluate the game from an outside perspective.
“To my dear @official2baba, my …, There are not enough words in English to express how much I love you, so I won’t even try. To the Gentle, kind, loving, peaceful being, to the guy who would not intentionally hurt a fly, who would take losses in several businesses just to avoid any form of confrontations, who makes sure everyone around is comfortable even thou he is not alright, who gets mute, and watches himself being painted as the bad guy just to protect thesame person painting him as the bad guy. To the guy who i would dare to describe as the modern day Jesus Christ from nigeria, because of how innocent and pure your heart is, but you will also be crucified by religious standards, to the most insánely talented musician that has ever graced my ears …I beg you today, to ‘WAKE UP!
It can never be a crime to save yourself, to move on from where you were almost losing your life and soul, but you haven’t moved on, you have been captured, captured from inside the frying pan to an industrial furnace …so my heart bleeds.
It’s one thing for a girlfriend to snoop in your phone and read messages out of curiosity or for other relationship reasons ( it can even come off as cute ), but a girlfriend who breaks into your phone to announce your divorce , because she had doubts about you going through with it , who posts and deletes a picture of herself on your socials and ask Nigerians to help you beg her to marry her while you sleep , who clones your what’sapp , deletes messages she doesn’t like and replies messages pretending to be you to steam roll her agendas ,a control freak inside your emails and your accounts , who convinces you to abandon your management and businesses in Lagos and move to Abuja , just to become her arm candy and dragged all over Benin and to places the real you will definitely not go , who would make you defend lies and tolerate chaos , who would sabotage your business trips, …who would do a whole lot of rubbish ( I will not mention here out of shame )and hide under your name, who would adopt your Surname , tell strangers , and whoever cares to listen,that she is your wife while you are still legally married”.
“A girlfriend who makes you eat your words from a podcast just because you didn’t mention her name she would have liked, is not a girlfriend but a psychotic fan,…a cancerous leech who has come to slowly but steadily destroy you and your legacy, all in the name of love. You are in one of the episodes of those ‘Crime and Investigation/ Love Passion & Murder’ you love to watch, and the victim at the end of the story is going to be you. How haven’t you realised this?.You are currently living in bondage.
Today being 2-7-2025, I beg you, bro, take a couple of months off ALONE, get completely off social media and let the music and businesses wait. Give yourself time to heal and reflect, and really focus on what’s important at this stage of your life. I beg you to do this, in the name of whatever you still hold dear, in the names of your 7 lovely kids, they would love to grow up with a healthy and happy father in future. You are a great chess player, you know when it’s time to step away from the chess board and evaluate the game from an outside perspective, this is that time, before it gets too late …a time to become the real you again,…. this isn’t you”.